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The Truth About Blogging: What Many Experienced Bloggers Won’t Tell You

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The Truth About Blogging: What Many Experienced Bloggers Won’t Tell You

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If you’re anything like me, you have a very close relationship with Pinterest. I mean, I check Pinterest more often than I do Google, most of the time. I have found their search engine to be incredibly powerful and inspiring!

Of course, when I started searching for work from home ideas, my go-to place was Pinterest. I did tons of research on the different options I found and took my sweet time narrowing it down to what I felt I could do best, and to what I would totally love. The result was: blogging!

The amount of information about how to start to blog, where and which tools to use and all the other good stuff about blogging was overwhelming. Unfortunately, a lot of it was insanely repetitive. However, there are a few things that most articles/blog posts skimmed thru. Or sadly, some were very misleading. Of those things is what this post is about.

I wouldn’t claim to be an expert. Not even close. After all, this is what I have learned during my first hands-on month blogging 😉 All I wish to do is share with you a tiny little bit of what blogging really is. (At least, the tip of the huge iceberg)

The Truth About Blogging


There is a huge difference between setting up a blog and starting to blog. Most blog posts about blogging rant and rave about how easy it all is. Or how you can start to blog in 5-10 minutes. Let me tell you something: that was far from the truth. At least in my case.

Of course, I had my domain picked out and my hosting set up in a jiffy. This blog is hosted by Siteground and they are amazing! They even called me on my cellphone shortly after to make sure I was on the right path and to ask me if I needed any help. I have to say, after months of research and finding out many bloggers recommending Bluehost, I was a bit hesitant to go with Siteground.

In my quest to make the best choices, I kept reading about blogging. I even checked and joined some Facebook blogging groups. I figured those would be the best spots to find real answers (hmmm, did I just say I went on Facebook for real answers!? Yes, I guess I did)

See, many bloggers post about blogging and use their affiliate links on those posts (myself included). Unfortunately, sometimes those bloggers post only to make money off of it. Not because they truly believe in the product. This is not true for all, obviously. The majority will be truthful and honest, which is a good thing.

We all (or most) want to monetize out blogs. Thankfully, most do so by being honest. But, I have found that those FB groups for bloggers are where you can find the most honest answers to the off stage part of blogging. And so I joined those groups. There, I found out that a huge amount of them would pick Siteground over Bluehost anytime.

This lead me to re-think my whole blog plan and do some more research. When I finally took the plunge, I was ready and informed and I am certainly glad I picked Siteground. But I couldn’t honestly say that Bluehost is a bad choice: I have no personal experience with them.

What none of those “How to start a blog in 5 minutes” posts tell you is that, the 5 minutes involves getting your domain and paying for the hosting. In truth, there is much more to blogging. And unless you’re incredibly knowledgeable on all things technology, it won’t be quick.


Once I had my domain and my hosting with Siteground in place, I had even more decisions to make. First, I needed to pick a theme. This is no small feat. You could go with a free theme (I did at first), or you could choose to purchase one. But the problem is, there is a ridiculous amount of options out there!

Whether you go with a free theme or a paid one, you must make sure you pick one that fits your style and your needs. I for one, picked one at first and looked cool. It turned out to be a huge nightmare. I was very frustrated, to say the least! Then I said, screw this, I am changing it and went with yet another one. This one was OK but I still had a hard time getting on an intimate level with it.

Remember those Facebook groups I mentioned before? Well, one of those groups lead to the theme I am currently using. It was posted by the creator, free to use and I liked what I saw. So I downloaded it and started playing with it. As it turns out, that theme is amazingly easy to use, very user friendly. For someone who knows zilch about coding, this was a Godsend.

Still, all this tweaking and fixing has taken me weeks. Between changing themes, getting comfortable with it and setting it up with the features I like, its taken me a ton of time. I have made a few posts so far but definitely not as many as I’d like.

UPDATE: I have now purchased the Isabelle theme from Bluchic, and I love it! It is not only beautiful, but also super duper easy to use, and customize. I highly recommend it for anyone who desires to take the plunge, and upgrade to a paid theme 😉

Creating Content

If you love writing as much as I do, then this will not be much of a problem. At first though, it will be hard to make the time to write, with all those other things claiming your immediate attention. It is not a “start blogging in 5 minutes” kind of deal. Not even close.

Although many bloggers who write about blogging do mention that there is a lot of work involved in blogging, the titles can be misleading. Especially if you consider writing and blogging to be one and the same, as I did.

Some days it’ll feel like the behind-the-scenes aspects of blogging are sucking your soul out of your body. When this happens, take a step back and evaluate how you’re spending your time. Make sure you set up some time to write a bit, even if it’s just an hour per day. I guarantee you’ll see the results sooner rather than later.

The Truth About Blogging: What Many Experienced Bloggers Won’t Tell You

I realize this post might seem like a way to discourage others from blogging. Far from that. What I would like is for you to have a clearer view of it.

Blogging is a TON of work for sure. However, I do love it, even the techy stuff. Yes, it is true that some things have a higher learning curve than others. The fact that it isn’t as easy peasy is also true. But oh so worth it! (If you enjoy it)

One thing is for sure: if you love to write, or to share your point of views, tips, etc. then you can certainly get past all the sticky business and simply enjoy the ride. I might not know where this is leading me but I swear I am enjoying every single minute of it!

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